Social Anxiety Therapy Florida

Social Anxiety therapy Florida: help is a click away

Social Anxiety Therapy Florida can be the turning point between a life ruled by self-consciousness and a life where you speak, laugh, and connect with ease. I’m Eliana Bonaguro, LMHC—an anxiety-specialized therapist trained in CBT & ERP at the Beck Institute—and I help adults across Florida, whether you are in Miami, Coral Gable, Boca Raton, Fort Lauderdale, Orlando, Fort myers, Tampa, Naples and beyond  thanks to secure telehealth, replace paralysis with participation.

Why Does Coffee With a Friend Feel Like a Board-Room Presentation?

If you’re reading this, you probably Googled phrases like “therapy for shyness Florida,” “social phobia therapy Florida,”or even “social anxiety therapist near me.” You might rehearse every word before speaking, fear blushing in meetings, or decline invitations because the pressure feels unbearable. In truth, you’re not weak, broken, or “too sensitive.” You’re experiencing Social Anxiety Disorder—and it is highly treatable.

What Is Social Anxiety Disorder?

Social Anxiety Disorder (also called social phobia) affects millions of people, yet it often goes undiagnosed. It’s more than nervousness — it’s a constant, overwhelming worry that people are watching, judging, or criticizing you. For instance, you might replay conversations in your head for hours, avoid eye contact, or decline invitations just to avoid discomfort.

But social anxiety is treatable — and change is possible.

You Deserve to Feel Free

Imagine waking up and not feeling that pit in your stomach before every social event. Imagine making a phone call, walking into a restaurant, or introducing yourself at a networking event — without panic. That’s what we work toward in therapy. My approach is designed not just to manage your symptoms, but to help you build a more confident, connected life.

Everyday ShynessSocial Anxiety / Social Phobia
DurationTemporary6+ months, persistent
ImpactMild discomfortCancels plans; career & dating stalled
Thoughts“I hope they like me.”“I’ll humiliate myself; everyone will notice.”
BehaviorsStill attends eventsAvoids or endures with terror

Perfectionism often turbo-charges social anxiety: “Unless I’m flawless, people will reject me.” Part of our work is loosening those unrealistic rules so you can be human—messy, real, and still loved.

Social Anxiety Therapy Florida: CBT + Exposure therapy for social anxiety

I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and exposure-based techniques, the most evidence-based and effective treatments for social anxiety. I received advanced training in anxiety disorders from the Beck Institute of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, one of the leading institutions in the world for CBT (https://beckinstitute.org/)

Here’s how our work together may look:

  • Psychoeducation & Mapping the Cycle
    We identify the loop: scary thought → anxious body → avoidant behavior → short-term relief → long-term misery. Seeing the cycle on paper instantly lowers shame.

  • Cognitive Restructuring (CBT for Social Anxiety )
    You’ll learn to test scary predictions (“They’ll see me shake and think I’m incompetent”) against real-world evidence. Expect collaborative experiments—not lectures.

  • Exposure Therapy  (a form of CBT)
    Together we create a graded hierarchy. For example: 

    • Level 1: Saying “Hello” to a barista in a crowded hangout spot in Miami

    • Level 3: Sharing an idea in your Tampa  team meeting

    • Level 5: Giving a toast at a friend’s wedding in Naples
      Over time, repeated  practice rewires your brain from threat to tolerable to totally manageable.

  • Self-Compassion & Nervous-System Tools
    Grounding breathwork, imagery, and mindful self-talk quiet the “fight-or-flight” surge so exposures stick.

  • Relapse-Prevention Plan
    Before graduation we build a maintenance roadmap—because confidence is a muscle that thrives on use.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

We’ll explore how your thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors are feeding the anxiety cycle. Many clients don’t even realize how automatic and harsh their self-judgments are. I’ll help you learn to identify distorted thinking, challenge it, and replace it with more balanced, supportive beliefs.

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)

Avoidance strengthens anxiety. Together, we’ll gradually face feared situations in a way that feels safe and manageable. Over time, your brain will rewire itself to view those moments as less threatening.

What social anxiety treatment Florida Feels Like

There’s a reason my clients describe our work together as both transformative and compassionate. You won’t just get a treatment plan — you’ll feel seen, heard, and understood.
  • Warm & Collaborative: Clients say my style feels “coffee-with-a-coach” rather than clinical coldness.

  • Structure With Flexibility: We start with wins, set a micro-goal, do skills or exposures, and close with a doable home practice.

  • Humor Allowed: Laughter disarms anxiety; we’ll celebrate awkward moments as data, not disasters.

  • Whole-Person Lens: In addition, we’ll weave in sleep, gut health (hello, SIBO friends!), and movement habits if they feed your worry cycle.

“I came in panicking about group projects. Six months later I presented at a national conference—without shaking.” –Former client, Westchester

Life After Exposure therapy for social anxiety:A Vivid Preview

Picture waking up on a sunny Saturday, texting friends in Miami to grab brunch, and actually showing up instead of bailing last minute. Your heart may flutter, but it quickly steadies because you’ve trained it to. You laugh loudly, propose a  trip to Tampa, and feel the world expand—job interviews, improv classes, maybe that TED-style talk you once dismissed as impossible. Here’s a glimpse at what transformation can look like:

Before Treatment

After Treatment

Overthinking every interaction

Speaking freely and being present

Avoiding events, calls, or attention

Participating without dread

Feeling defective or “too much”

Feeling capable, worthy, and grounded

Constant self-doubt

Clear, confident inner voice

Panic before meetings or dates

Calm, connected, in control

This isn’t wishful thinking — it’s the outcome of intentional, therapeutic work.

Online Social Anxiety Treatment: From Coral Gables to Your Sofa in Jacksonville

Even though I offer only online social anxiety therapy, you’ll still feel like you’re getting that Midtown NYC experience—just without the subway ride or office wait. Therapy from home means you can expect: 

  • Practicing real-time exposures in the comfort of your Fort Lauderdale or Boca Raton , Palm Beach, kitchen or Sarasota backyard

  • Getting expert social anxiety therapy in Florida while staying in Jacksonille, Delray, Orlando, St Petersburg, Gainesville,  Fort Myers, Naples , Sarasota..

  • Booking sessions that fit your life—whether it’s a lunch break in your office  or an evening session in your home in Sarasota..

This isn’t just virtual therapy—it’s personalized, flexible care from a Beck Institute-trained specialist, wherever you are in Florida.

Why Choose Me Over Another “Anxiety Specialist”?

What I OfferWhy It Matters to You
Advanced Training at the Beck Institute in CBT & ERPYou’re getting gold-standard methods, not guesswork.
Niche Focus: OCD, panic, & social anxiety treatment FloridaDeep, up-to-date expertise instead of generic talk therapy.
Data-Driven: Monthly symptom-tracking + progress graphsIn fact, you’ll see numbers confirming what you feel: real improvement.
Empathic Personality: Warm, nerdy, slightly goofyTherapeutic work feels safe, human, and even fun.

Flexible Access: online therapy  across Florida including Weston,  Parkland, Palm Beach Gardens, Jupiter, Bonita Springs, Boca Raton, Delray Beach, West Palm Beach, Coral Gables, Aventura, Sarasota, Naples, Fort Myers Gainesville, Clearwater

Results Clients Noticeafter online therapy for shyness

  • Voice no longer trembles during staff meetings 

  • Dating in Miami feels exciting, not catastrophic.

  • Confidently asks for extra wasabi at a South Beach sushi bar—without rehearsing.

  • Speaks up in college classes at Nova University   instead of remaining invisible.

  • Hosts game night in Downtown Naples.

Check out my book:

Yesterday It Rained: A Visual Guide to Living with Anxiety

Available now on Amazon.

If you’re holding this book, chances are you—or someone you love—is struggling with persistent anxiety. You’re not alone.


As a licensed mental health counselor specializing in anxiety disorders, I’ve walked alongside countless individuals learning to manage the daily weight of worry, panic, and intrusive thoughts. This illustrated guide is more than just information—it’s a compassionate, practical companion designed to make evidence-based tools feel relatable and accessible.

Ready to Get Started?

No matter where you are in Florida, help is just a click away.

Let’s talk about where you are — and where you want to be. Schedule your free consultation today!

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Eliana